Comments on: The geek’s guide to love http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/ Thu, 09 Sep 2010 10:22:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Justin Halsall http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/comment-page-1/#comment-10545 Justin Halsall Wed, 12 Nov 2008 10:57:41 +0000 http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/#comment-10545 6. "It’s not in our nature to be mean." I disagree :P. But, we where definitely socially programmed to be not be mean. 7. So true, if my girlfriend wants her computer fixed, she has other people for that. I'm not even going to go close to that thing unless I need to do something on it for me. You must also have the mindset that you are the prize. This is much more attractive than someone who has to fight for her love. Attraction is not a choice, you can not convince someone to find you attractive, they either do or they don't. Buying her a valentines gift/dinner/whatever wont change that. 10. the whole 80% thing is bull, she tells you what she thinks she want, but that probably isn't what she wants. eg. A girl may say that she want a kind caring guy but when you ask her about the last few guys she dated she will say that they where jerks that only gave a damn about themselves. 6. “It’s not in our nature to be mean.” I disagree :P. But, we where definitely socially programmed to be not be mean.

7. So true, if my girlfriend wants her computer fixed, she has other people for that. I’m not even going to go close to that thing unless I need to do something on it for me.
You must also have the mindset that you are the prize. This is much more attractive than someone who has to fight for her love. Attraction is not a choice, you can not convince someone to find you attractive, they either do or they don’t. Buying her a valentines gift/dinner/whatever wont change that.

10. the whole 80% thing is bull, she tells you what she thinks she want, but that probably isn’t what she wants. eg. A girl may say that she want a kind caring guy but when you ask her about the last few guys she dated she will say that they where jerks that only gave a damn about themselves.

]]> By: Andrei Eftimie http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/comment-page-1/#comment-10541 Andrei Eftimie Wed, 12 Nov 2008 09:34:33 +0000 http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/#comment-10541 haha, man, this is great. Very nice read haha, man, this is great.

Very nice read

]]> By: ryubahamut http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/comment-page-1/#comment-260 ryubahamut Tue, 22 May 2007 17:17:40 +0000 http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/#comment-260 Awesome read, good sir. Bookmarked. Awesome read, good sir. Bookmarked.

]]> By: Nickos http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/comment-page-1/#comment-255 Nickos Fri, 18 May 2007 18:11:13 +0000 http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/#comment-255 Great job Kili... Send this to my girlfriend, she might get to know me now Great job Kili… Send this to my girlfriend, she might get to know me now

]]> By: Kilian Valkhof http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/comment-page-1/#comment-203 Kilian Valkhof Wed, 11 Apr 2007 16:45:58 +0000 http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/#comment-203 This is all from first-hand experience, of course :) This is all from first-hand experience, of course :)

]]> By: Arjan Eising http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/comment-page-1/#comment-202 Arjan Eising Wed, 11 Apr 2007 16:37:01 +0000 http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/#comment-202 Did you practice this before posting? :p I also have a real life example how <em>not</em> to impress your girlfriend: A gamer I've know about (via via), didn't stop playing games when his girlfriend came at his home for the first time. That girlfriend directly broke up... <em>justice!</em> Did you practice this before posting? :p I also have a real life example how not to impress your girlfriend:
A gamer I’ve know about (via via), didn’t stop playing games when his girlfriend came at his home for the first time. That girlfriend directly broke up… justice!

]]> By: Ranjani http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/comment-page-1/#comment-201 Ranjani Wed, 11 Apr 2007 11:26:34 +0000 http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/#comment-201 Hahaha, that was great! Of course, the first few don't apply if your girlfriend knows anything about computers. "A keyboard? DUDE THAT'S WHAT YOU TYPE WITH, RIGHT?" But I may be wrong :P Hahaha, that was great! Of course, the first few don’t apply if your girlfriend knows anything about computers.

“A keyboard? DUDE THAT’S WHAT YOU TYPE WITH, RIGHT?”

But I may be wrong :P

]]> By: Paul Chaplin http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/comment-page-1/#comment-200 Paul Chaplin Tue, 10 Apr 2007 22:32:33 +0000 http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/#comment-200 Great write-up, Kilian! It turned out even better than I hoped - hell, even my <em>mum</em> thought it was funny and accurate. :D And gah, now that I've been linked to from somewhere vaguely active, I'll have to actually <em>update</em> my blog, and do something about that unforgivably awful placeholder in the site root... Great write-up, Kilian! It turned out even better than I hoped – hell, even my mum thought it was funny and accurate. :D

And gah, now that I’ve been linked to from somewhere vaguely active, I’ll have to actually update my blog, and do something about that unforgivably awful placeholder in the site root…

]]> By: Altmer http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/comment-page-1/#comment-197 Altmer Tue, 10 Apr 2007 19:43:15 +0000 http://kilianvalkhof.com/2007/life/the-geeks-guide-to-love/#comment-197 This is an excellent and useful list, thank you very much... I would just like to remind you that if you are going to be complete about this ripoff your category needs the add-on of "The Universe and Everything." This is an excellent and useful list, thank you very much… I would just like to remind you that if you are going to be complete about this ripoff your category needs the add-on of “The Universe and Everything.”

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